This does not mean I want to get married and have children right
now, but I question how fabulous it really is to be 35 and single. I just think back to New York and LA with all
my older friends in the their mid-thirties and even forties serial dating men
and sleeping with all kinds of guys.
Going to parties with people obsessed with materialism and who do not
even want to make real eye contact with you. Going to parties and feeling never
good enough in a room full of botox and breast implants. Going to parties and seeing men pray on women
like they are dogs on fresh meat.
Watching my friends try desperately to meet someone and have one bad
date after the next. Seeing the same
pathetic people hanging out at the same nightclubs week and week. Coming home
at night to your own bed with no one in it.
Is this fabulous? Or is finding someone special who truly cares and loves you fabulous? The
single people are looking for this someone special, but my hunch is that these
single women have pushed away man great men over the years. Why?
Because we are all looking for the next best thing.
We are looking for the perfect
man, which does not exist because no one is perfect. It is sad that people just keep looking and
looking and pass up good men because they are focused on being fabulous and
single and waiting for a Prince charming.
Living and traveling, I love my freedom and find solitude in
being alone, but this does not mean I should push away good men that are right
in front of me. At 28, I question how
fabulous it is when you have two beautiful men and you push them away for a
single life that you do not really desire.
I do not want to date and waste time with getting to know men whom 80
percent I am not interested in or find flawed.
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