If a Man is Jealous He Loves You

Spending the past 7 months in Muslim countries, I am learning a lot about the culture and what I have learned is a false belief. 

If he is jealous that means he loves me.

About 25 percent of this is true because jealousy does not equal love

Jealousy=loss of control or power and insecurity from the man

The man is insecure and worried that you will find someone else because guess what you probably deserve someone better than him and he knows this. 

Deep down he knows that you could find someone else and he is acting off his own selfish ways/insecurities-not love.  It is just a way to control the women and leads her to falsely mistake it as love.  Wake up girls jealousy is not love! It is just weak men with weak defense mechanisms projecting their own insecurities onto you.

And same goes for women! For example my recent break up. My intuition went off telling me that something was wrong over and over so this lead to jealousy and belief there was someone else.  The intuitive feeling combined with the complete lack of attraction towards me were red flags telling me there was someone else. 

BUT Always dig deep and analyze and you will find out that the problems really lie with you(keep in mind this is not always true because men are cheaters).   If I dig deep I see that my insecurities have been repressed and repressed and now are coming out full blast at the end of the relationship. “I always knew he would find someone skinnier and more his type.” This is what rings through my mind because I am insecure with my own body and the feeling of “never being good enough.”

Insecurites can be stronger than we desire or even know.  Identify them instead of repress them and talk about them rather than glorify them. PRIS