Priscilla's Arab Theory

The culture is negatively impacting their being not allowing them to commit and stay true to one woman.  All of these men date a lot of women. From generation to generation, men have had multiple wives and this can be supported by the religion and the culture.  Both Mr. Casa and Mr. Bigg were not in very serious relationships and were just off being playboys and single bachelors. 

The Arab stick with their boys and always prioritize their friends, but when it comes to the women-they come on the bottom of the list. They will make time for their friends, they will spend money on their friends, and they will stop the world for their friends.  When it comes to you, things they do for you can be viewed as a nuisance.   This is a cultural problem with these men where they are conflicted between real feelings and their culture-their identity. 

They express their feelings like real human beings, but when they feel the woman reciprocating her feelings-they will repress all emotions or feeling they had for you.  For example, they may say something sweet, you feel the emotion, and then they act like they never said it before. Example below of two turtles:

A male turtle and female turtle spend their days enjoying one another's company. When one day, the male turtles come up behind him and ask him, “Whats going on here?”

The turtle says, “Nothing.”

The male turtle was caught with the female turtle expressing emotion and the men saw it.  The men laugh at him and make fun of this ridiculous behavior.

The next day the female turtle sees the male.  She is happy as could be. After all, they had been spending months together and she was really falling for him.  The turtle just stays inside his shell. Minutes, hours, and days pass by and he is still in his shell.  Ms. Turtle is crying and crying and eventually Mr. Turtle comes out of his shell.  He does not speak to her rather he just gives her stone cold look.

Three months later, the male turtle broke the silence with the female turtle. But for three whole months, the male turtle was silent.  His silence bold and powerful and it made the female turtle feel guilty and ashamed like she was not a human being.     TFrom then on, the male turtle just treated the female turtle like...

                                     " Just Somebody that I used to know......."